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Elul: A month of preparing for the high holidays

Mikva’ot

Men’s Mikvah at Baker Beach
Sunday, 9/29 | 6 AM

Women’s Mikvah at Baker Beach
Sunday, 9/29 | 6:15 AM

Mikvah immersion is a traditional way to mark transitions. As we prepare for the High Holidays, we are offering community mikva’ot to connect to this time in the Jewish calendar, honor this past year and prepare for the Days of Awe.

We have two mikva’ot sessions, one for men led by Rabbi Michael Lezak and one for women - led by Janine Okmin. You are invited to come to the session that feels most comfortable to you. Questions? Email us at hello@thekitchensf.org.

Selichot Melodies:
Prayers of Forgiveness 

Hazzan Asher Shasho Levy recorded our most compelling Selichot (Forgiveness) melodies so that we can listen and sing all month in preparation for the holidays. Maybe it’s just us, but they definitely brought us way, way back to last year, in the most meaningful way.

We recommend you listen to them late and night or when you wake but we won’t tell if you listen at other times, too. (And, don’t worry about Ashkenazi faves like “Aveinu Malkeinu,” because we’ll be praying those, too!)

Selichot Wednesday Services

Jumping into the high holidays without any preparation is kind of like trying to run a marathon without exercising first. Instead, we recommend you join us for these three, weekly Selichot services. 

Traditionally, these services are said every day of Elul, before dawn, through Yom Kippur. We’re starting with three Wednesday services at 7 PM. Come and sing through the old melodies before the big, musically accompanied Selichot concert / service, and we promise by the time we’re singing on the high holidays, you’ll be warmed up and then some. 
 
9/11, 9/18, 9/25
7 PM - 8:30 PM 
Private Residence in The Mission

For details about our Selichot concert / service see below 
Check out our Selichot melodies embedded on this page

Red Thread Bracelets

Hold the High Holiday season with you from Selichot to Simhat Torah. We’ll be tying red threads on everyone’s left wrists for the High Holiday season. It’s a kabbalistic tradition and we think it’s also a good reminder of what we’re all trying to do this time of year.
Look out for our bracelet stations at every High Holiday event & service. We’ll have someone on hand to help you get in on this new Kitchen ritual. You may even make a friend or 2 when you spot a bracelet out in the wilds of San Francisco.

Selichot Concert

All about forgiveness

Selichot Concert All about forgiveness

Selichot Concert/Service:
All about forgiveness

Featuring guest musicians
Faisal Zedan, Jim Grippo,
Ari Marcus & sweets from
Loquat Bakery

SF Friends School
Saturday, September 28th

Kitchen Social Club | 6:00 - 7:30 PM
Kids & Family | 7:00 PM
Havdalah & Concert | 7:30 - 8:45 PM

All kids tickets free

Not a member yet? Click here to join at our High Holiday Discounted Rates

Members
$8 per adult ticket

Non-members
$18 per adult ticket

One of the best ways to dig into the high holiday season is with joy, singing our hearts out for forgiveness.

Led by guest musicians Faisal Zedan (Percussion), Jim Grippo (Qanun), Ari Marcus (Ney – Arabic & Turkish Flute) Hazzan Asher Levy, Rabbi Noa Kushner, and the Kitchen davening team, we’ll chant our Selichot,* a cycle of piyyutim we sing only this time of year, and ask for mercy and forgiveness. 

Think: lots of energy, forgiveness for all and ending with tea (recipe top-secret) and sweets from Loquat Bakery.

We’ll be tying red threads on everyone’s left wrists for the season, too. It’s a kabbalistic tradition and we think it’s also a good reminder of what we’re all trying to do this time of year.

*There’s a custom to rise before dawn to recite these prayers which ask Heaven for compassion and help. In Sephardic traditions, Selichot is recited from the beginning of the month of Elul through Yom Kippur, 40 days, the same amount of time Moses spent on Mount Sinai.

Kitchen Social Club (KSC)
KSC is our community for people in their 20s + 30s. Join us to grab pizza and be together before Selichot. We’ll walk together afterward to join the rest of The Kitchen community for Havdalah & the Selichot service/concert. . If you have questions about KSC, email Kayla, our Youth & Young Adult Program Director,
here.

Rosh Hashanah

Erev Rosh Hashanah

NEW: This year, we’re trying something different for us, but it’s actually more traditional. Instead of a more formal service with a big teaching, we’re going to have a brief, optional, and informal evening service (think 20 minutes, no teaching), followed by a festive, delicious banquet. (Chef Chris has been given instructions to give us some of his best for the new year and we don’t need to tell you what that means.) 

The banquet will begin, as it does in Sephardi communities around the world, with a brief series of blessings and wishes. We’ll eat apples and honey and wish each other a sweet year, and then we’ll also eat a variety of fruits and foods, each one symbolizing yet another way we can grant each other wishes and hopes for the new year. You’ll not only leave full but radiant with blessing.

Erev Rosh Hashanah
Wednesday, 10/2
Brief Ma’ariv / Evening Service | 6:00 PM
Seder and Banquet | 6:30 - 8:30 PM  
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th St 
Banquet catered by Chef Chris
Supplemental charge for Members. Included in ticket price for non-members.

Rosh Hashanah Day 1
Thursday, 10/3 | 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM
Lunch | 1:00 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th St
Festive lunch catered by Chef Chris
Sponsored by the Lawson Family

Tashlikh with Reboot
Thursday, 10/3 | 5:00 - 7:00 PM
Crissy Field East Beach
More information + RSVP
here

Rosh Hashanah Day 2
Friday, 10/4 | 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
Noe Valley Ministry

All members must reserve tickets
$40 supplemental charge for
Erev Rosh Hashanah Banquet

Not a member yet? Click here to join at our High Holiday Discounted Rates

$125 per day for non-member adults
(13 years and older)

$40 per day for non-member children
(2-12 years old)

Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur cancellation & no-show policy for Kitchen members

Our goal is to fill the most seats on our most popular dates of the year. If you have reserved High Holiday ticket/s and cannot attend, we require 72 hours of advanced notice in order to accommodate people on our waitlist. If you cancel within 72 hours of the service, or do not attend, there will be a $60 fee (per person / per service) charged to your member account. 

To inform us of a cancellation or if there are any questions about this policy please email help@thekitchensf.org.

Yom Kippur

Kol Nidrei
Friday, 10/11 | 6:30 - 8:30 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th St

Yom Kippur Morning Service
Saturday, 10/12 | 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
Welcoming guest Rabbi Michael Lezak
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th St

Yom Kippur Afternoon Services
Saturday, 10/12 *Please note new times*
Yizkor & Remembering 10/7 | 3:30 - 4:45 PM
Mincha / Afternoon service & Neila | 4:45 - 7:25 PM
Break Fast | Wise Sons | 7:25 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th St

All members must reserve tickets

Not a member yet? Click here to join at our High Holiday Discounted Rates

$125 per day for non-member adults
(13 years and older)

$40 per day for non-member child
(2-12 years old)

Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur cancellation & no-show policy for Kitchen members

Our goal is to fill the most seats on our most popular dates of the year. If you have reserved High Holiday ticket/s and cannot attend, we require 72 hours of advanced notice in order to accommodate people on our waitlist. If you cancel within 72 hours of the service, or do not attend, there will be a $60 fee (per person / per service) charged to your member account. 

To cancel or if there are any questions about this policy please email help@thekitchensf.org.

Remembering 10/7

This year, 10.7 falls in between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. All of us have been changed from the events of 5784. In keeping with how the Kitchen has marked this war and its many tragedies, rather than creating a new secular holiday to help us remember, we are leaning on our existing liturgical tradition, that is, our prayer book. And so, we will come together as a community, and remember through our prayers. 

Sadly, our tradition already has prayers and services written for the release of captives, for peace, and so on. We just had to find them. 

We have been praying for the release of our captives since 10.7 on shabbat mornings and holidays and will continue until everyone is home.

We have also decided to mark 10.7 in two specific ways: 

On Yom Kippur afternoon, we will designate a portion of our Yizkor (memory) service to remember and reflect on the lives that have been lost on 10.7 and in the ongoing war. 

On Simchat Torah, we will begin with a Yizkor service, again, considering and reflecting on that day as well as all those we have lost since 10.7. We will then move into the hakafot (circuts or dances), carrying our torah, and using our prayers and melodies to go from grief towards reaching for life. For a more complete description of our Simchat Torah this year, click here.

High Holidays Kitchen Audio

High Holidays Audio

Every service direct to your home via Kitchen Radio. Tune in (click on ‘High Holidays Audio button’ ) during service times (Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur) to pray and celebrate with the Kitchen community from a distance. Note that if you click on the link above outside of service times, our station is “off air”.

Digital Kitchen Machzor
$54.00
Add To Cart

Digital Machzor

Tuning in to Kitchen Radio to join us from afar? Purchase a digital download of our machzor to follow along.

There is a limited quantity of machzor hard copies. If you’d like to purchase a hard copy of our Kitchen Machzor ($98), email us at help@thekitchensf.org. Only orders placed before 9/1 can be guaranteed to arrive before Rosh Hashanah.

Kids + Family + Teens

Rosh Hashanah

Erev Rosh Hashanah Seder
Wednesday, 10/2 | 6:00 PM - 8:30 PM 
Families are invited to join our very first seder for Rosh Hashanah. Yes! We will start with an informal evening service followed by a festive, delicious banquet with symbolic foods and many blessings for the new year!

Rosh Hashanah Day 1 Morning Services
Thursday, 10/3  |  9:00 AM - 1:00 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street
Join us for a family holiday learning experience and opportunity to check out our Educational offerings. You do not need to be enrolled in Freedom School to attend.

  • Kitchen Playground (families with infants to age 5) 

  • Freedom School + Friends (families with kids in kindergarten through 7th grade)

  • Plus a learning opportunity for Freedom City teens (8th - 12th grade)

Rosh Hashanah Day 2 Morning Services
Friday, 10/4 | 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM
Noe Valley Ministry

KIDS (3-11) can pop in and out of childcare throughout. Make sure to head back to services at 12:30 PM-ish to hear the shofar!

Questions? Email Mor at mor@thekitchensf.org

Register for all Kids + Family programs when you purchase your Rosh Hashanah tickets

Yom Kippur

Yom Kippur Morning Service
Saturday, 10/12 | 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street

Join us on Yom Kippur morning for a family holiday + learning experience:

  • Kitchen Playground (families with infants to age 5)

  • Freedom School + Friends (families with kids in kindergarten through 7th grade)

  • Plus a learning opportunity for Freedom City teens (8th - 12th grade)

Yom Kippur Afternoon Services
Saturday, 10/12 | 3:30 PM - 7:25 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street

Join us for the final services of the day. Childcare services are available starting at 3:30 PM for kids ages 3-11, with a visit into services at 7:25 PM-ish for a final shofar blast!

Yizkor & Remembering 10/7 | 3:30 - 4:45 PM
Mincha / Afternoon service & Neila | 4:45 - 7:25 PM
Break Fast | 7:25 PM

Questions? Email Mor at mor@thekitchensf.org

Register for all Kids + Family programs when you purchase your Yom Kippur tickets

Teen Sessions
Rosh Hashanah + Yom Kippur

Rosh Hashanah Day 1
Thursday, 10/3 | 9:00 - 10:00 AM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street

Yom Kippur
Saturday, 10/12 | 9:30 - 10:30 AM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street

Teenagers in 8th - 12th grade are invited to our Teen Sessions on Rosh Hashanah Day 1 and Yom Kippur. These sessions will provide a facilitated space for teens to learn and explore the relevance of the holidays in their own lives.

Please be in touch with Kayla, our Youth & Young Adult Program Director, with any questions. To find out more about our teen community at The Kitchen, check out Freedom City.

Note, signing up for teen sessions does not secure a High Holiday ticket for them. All people ages 13 and up are required to secure adult High Holiday Tickets in order to attend services.

Questions? Email Kayla at kayla@thekitchensf.org.

Kitchen Social Club (KSC)

Kitchen Social Club (KSC) is our community for people in thier 20s & 30s.

Selichot Pizza Dinner

Saturday, 9/28 | 6:00 - 7:45 PM | Little Star Pizza  |  No RSVP needed

Havdalah + Selichot Concert | 7:30 - 8:45 PM | Friends School

Join us to grab pizza and be together before Selichot, the musical and spiritual beginning to High Holidays. We’ll walk together afterward to join the rest of The Kitchen community for Havdalah & the Selichot service/concert. 

Rosh Hashanah Lunch

Thursday, 10/3 | 1:00 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street - Specific location to be messaged

After services, we will meet and eat lunch together as a KSC community. Lunch is provided with ticket reservation/purchase, sponsored by the Lawson family. No RSVP is required to meet up for lunch. 

Yom Kippur Break Fast

Saturday, 10/12 | 7:25 PM
Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street - Specific location to be messaged

Meet together break the fast together with the KSC community. Break-fast is provided with ticket reservation/purchase. No RSVP is required to meet up for dinner.  

Be happy outside, together.

Be happy outside, together.

Sukkot Banquet + Shabbat

Jewish Community High School
Friday, October 18th

Brief Ma’ariv/Evening Service | 7:00 PM
Festive Sukkot Banquet | 7:30 PM
Banquet catered by
Chef Chris

Members
$40 per adult ticket
$12 per kid ticket

Non-members
$50 per adult ticket
$18 per kid ticket

Not a member yet? Click here to join at our High Holiday Discounted Rates

Way back when the Temple was still standing, we used to make pilgrimages to Jerusalem three times a year: Sukkot (fall), Passover (spring), and Shavuot (summer). We would bring our fruit or grain to the temple to demonstrate our gratitude for that season’s harvest. And, importantly, we would all get to see each other. 

At the Kitchen, we’re connecting to that same cycle by adding three banquets every year to our calendar (we also added an extra one for Rosh Hashanah, see above!), to create special occasions to just be together, enjoy some good food, and appreciate all we’ve been given. 

For our Festive Sukkot Banquet this year, we will host a brief shabbat service in the sukkah (think 20 minutes, very short teaching), followed by a delicious banquet. Chef Chris has been tasked with helping us savor the foods of the season and we hear there might also be excellent wine (because you will be bringing it, ha ha!). 

Please dress in festive, fall attire (think dinner party), consider bringing sweaters, coats or wraps (we’ll be outside in our sukkah), and bring beautiful, fall fruits, branches, or flowers in a fall palette – so we can decorate our tables in the sukkah.


Festive Sukkot Service
+ Shabbat AM

Jewish Community High School
Saturday, October 19th

Shabbat Services + Hallel | 9:30 AM
Sukkot Lunch | 12:30 PM

Shabbat in our sukkah means you get to be one part kid (who doesn’t love a fort?), one part outdoors-y (praying under a roof made of palm fronds and sky), and one part full of our particular kind of jewish joy. 

Not only will we be gathering for a beautiful shabbat, surrounded by a courtyard made of Jerusalem stone and legit etrog trees, we’ll be singing hallel, special melodies we only get to sing a few times a year. Come and see why we call it “the season of our joy.” Want your own lulav + etrog? Click here to order.

Simchat Torah

SF Lighthouse @ 1337 Sutter Street
Thursday, October 24th
Light food and drinks to be served

Kitchen Playground | 5:00 - 6:00 PM
For families with infants to age 5
Freedom School | 5:45 - 7:00 PM
Yizkor + Hakafot | 7:00 PM
For everyone

This year, Simchat Torah marks the Jewish anniversary of 10.7. All of us have been changed from the events of 5784. We have not only lost people, we have lost (and found) some of our perspectives and ideas. As such, we are required to rethink how we approach the holiday. 

In looking into our tradition, we note that we have a custom of saying Yizkor (our service for remembering those who have died, both personally and communally) on Shmini Atzeret / the last days of Sukkot. So we will begin our Simchat Torah this year with a Yizkor, remembering those who have died in the past year. 

Then, we will move through our seven hakafot (circuits / dances with the torah). Each one will be connected to a different prayer or plea or dream. We imagine the first ones will be connected to mourning, modern and mythic – historically, Simchat Torah is also the day we grieve the loss of Moses, as that is when we read about his death in the torah – and then, we hope the seven hakafot can help propel us to life, towards resilience, connection and reaching better days. 

In short: We will begin with a more reflective service, appropriate for all ages, and move into singing, processing with our torah, and maybe even, if it seems right, some dancing. 

As always, we will open the whole torah, connect to the letters and meaning, end our story and begin it again. 

Members
$26 per adult ticket
$12 per kid ticket

Non-members
$36 per adult ticket
$18 per kid ticket

Not a member yet? Click here to join at our High Holiday Discounted Rates

We need volunteers!

We always say you make the best connections at The Kitchen when washing dishes after Shabbat dinner, so here’s your chance to start the new year with new friends. We’re looking for volunteers to help us with event set-up/breakdown, check-in, greeting & passing out machzorim, and probably a few other things. If you’d like to volunteer this year, sign up here.

Getting to Storek Leather Factory @ 155 9th Street

Storek is located on the corner of 9th Street and Natoma Street. Entrance on 9th Street.

Parking Information
Market Square Garage @ 846 Jessie St: Open Mon-Fri

United SF Parking @ 999 Jessie St: Open 7 Days

Trinity Parking Garage @ 99 8th Street: Open 7 Days

Public Transportation
BART | Civic Center Station is a 6 minute walk from Storek

Bicycle Transportation
There is no designated bicycle parking but you are welcome to bring your bike into the building.